THEME
"Feminism is not about who opens the jar.

It is not about who pays for the date. It is not about who moves the couch. It is not about who kills the bugs. It is not about who cooks the dinner. It’s not even about who stays home with the kids, as long as the decision was made together, after thinking carefully about your situation and coming to an agreement that makes sense for your particular marriage and family.

It is about making sure that nobody ever has to do anything by “default” because of their gender. The stronger person should move the couch. The person who enjoys cooking more, has more time for it, and/or is better at it should do the cooking. Sometimes the stronger person is male, sometimes not. Sometimes the person who is best suited for cooking is female, sometimes not. You should do what works.

But it is also about letting people know that it is okay to change. If you’re a woman who wants to become stronger, that’s great. If you’re a man who wants to learn how to cook, that’s also great. You might start out with a relationship where the guy opens all the jars and the girl cooks all the meals, but you might find that you want to try something else. So try it."
- 4 ignorant delusions people have about feminism (via brutereason)
#reblog  #feminism  #text  #fav  
"It’s messing people up, this social pressure to “find your passion” and “know what it is you want to do”. It’s perfectly fine to just live your moments fully, and marvel as many small and large passions, many small and large purposes enter and leave your life. For many people there is no realization, no bliss to follow, no discovery of your life’s purpose. This isn’t sad, it’s just the way things are. Stop trying to find the forest and just enjoy the trees."
- Sally Coulter  (via tv-in-black-n-white)
#sigh  #reblog  #text  #quote  #fav  
loversof221b:

#acting

loversof221b:

#acting

#iconic  #reblog  #john watson  #martin freeman  #sherlock  #gif  #fav  #series 3  #drunks  #the sign of three  

schrodingers-tribble:

notyour-sidekick:

deerpong:

there’s something very satisfying about buying office supplies but I’m not quite sure how to explain that feeling

the illusion of productivity

that’s it that’s the feeling

#the feeling's beautiful really  #reblog  #me  #text  

how many calories do I burn when I run away from my problems?

#i hope a lot  #reblog  #text  #me  
"You can ask the universe for all the signs you want, but ultimately, we see what we want to see when we’re ready to see it."
- Unknown  (via eutro)
#reminds me of how i met your mother  #reblog  #text  #quote  
#perf  #reblog  #taylor swift  

A Proposed General Rule about Pictures of Naked People

fishingboatproceeds:

fishingboatproceeds:

I mean, I’m not saying that we can enforce this as law or anything. I also might be wrong about this. But:

Just as a general rule, I feel like we should not look at pictures of the breasts or genitalia of people who would rather we not look at pictures of their breasts or genitalia.

As a corollary to that general rule, I would add that I don’t see anything wrong with looking at pictures of breasts or genitalia of people who have invited us to do so. There seem to be plenty such pictures for us to get a reasonably good grasp of, like, the diversity of unclothed human anatomy without having to look at people who wish we wouldn’t.

This seems pretty straightforward to me. Yes, the photographer(s) who photographed Kate Middleton’s grainy distant breasts were violating her privacy. But so do people who choose to look at those pictures.

So maybe we can just agree not to? And this goes not only for princesses, I would argue, but also for people who send things to their romantic partners, who turn out to be jerks and release those photos publicly. Or people whose phones are hacked. etc.

In this world where most every curiosity can be satiated, it seems to me genuinely heroic to resist the urge to look at everything that can be seen, and instead to respect the wishes of those who feel violated or hurt by the availability of images they wish were private.

Seemed a good day to reblog this.

#true  #reblog  #john green  #text  #jennifer lawrence  #victoria justice  

A BC Edit 51/? STID Press Junket

A BC Edit 51/? STID Press Junket

#uMM NAOEPlk  #benedict cumberbatch  #sex  #reblog  
lordcvmberbatch:

An edit a day Benedict Cumberbatch - [27/?]

lordcvmberbatch:

An edit a day Benedict Cumberbatch - [27/?]
#you're so beautiful  #reblog  #benedict cumberbatch